“Marilla, isn’t it nice to think that tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it yet?” -Lucy Maud Montgomery (Anne of Green Gables)
Are you thinking and feeling like Anne in this wonderful quote…or have you already lost that zest for all of the things you wanted to change for 2017?!? Have you already fallen short on one or more of those incredibly well intentioned New Year’s resolutions??
Well it’s OK. It really is. Nobody is perfect you know. And those very first weeks, sometimes even those very first days often seem to be in that danger zone. That time when many of us don’t follow through and do perhaps fall down.
But here is my thought on this. Don’t give up! Because from my perspective, you have not really fallen down…you have perhaps just had a momentary stumble, a momentary hiccup you might say. Because, as I see it, every day starts fresh. Every day gives us a new opportunity to do it just exactly as we wish! 🙂
So, if you’ve stumbled a bit on Monday, or Wednesday, or Sunday that is OK, keep going! And if those wonderful resolutions have been left unmet or undone for a week or even a month, that is OK too, start fresh! Don’t let the calendar stifle your good intentions. They are just as good on January 17th, February 27th, or even July 7th as they are on January 1st.
Because…tomorrow’s dawn brings a new day to explore, a new day to try again, a new day to triumph!
I got 2017 to great start by coming out of closet to my massuse. I told her I like to wear women’s clothes and she asked if I like makeup/wearing lingerie to bed and I said yes. I was really nervous and scared what she would think but she was supportive of this. I said it’s been on my mind to tell her and she was happy that I did. I told her it started in middle school when girl on bus sat next to me and put makeup me then going home my step mom kissed me under the mistletoe and sat on my lap giving me more lipstick kisses then what did me in was roommates girlfriend bra in laundry basket asi was waiting to do laundry and I tried it on along with lipstick in bathroom. That was in 1998 and I’ve been hooked ever since. I asked her if it was ok to go shopping with her and her gf and she said yes. Last night I wore bra & panty to massage and she wanted me to see how it looked on me and she adjusted it to fit better. I showed her my dresses and she liked them saying I had great style and wants to barrow them sometimes. I also bought coach purse from her and she calls me her purse boy. We had girl talk about foundation she uses to keep her face soft and she wants me to start using it. I’m going to start wearing bras/panties to massages now that she knows and want to talk about lipsticks with her next time and ask what shade she used and see if she can pick out shade for me. I have lipsticks and will see what she thinks. By coming out to her she knows and if she wants she can expose me. She owns me and I won’t upset her as she can use this against me. It’s safe to say I’m her cream puff girlie purse sissy boy.
I believe major life changes are invitations to grow. And when this happens it makes you question who you are and your true purpose. This is why when transitioning into a new phase of life you must be honest with self and your feelings. Gaining perspective is key.
Petey, I am SO happy for you that you had the courage to come out to her! What a big enormous weight you must feel has been lifted off of your mind, body and soul! After ALL of this time, you finally did it, YAY!!!! And I think it IS now safe to say that you’re her “cream puff girlie sissy boy”. )
I think you’re right, Ms. Cindy. Major life changes are definitely invitations to grow! 🙂 And I think these times can be scary and throw us off a bit. But I also feel that having a healthy positive outlook can make all the difference. 🙂
Thank you both for call and blog featuring me!!! This is a life changer for sure by coming out to my massuse! She does indeed have me wrapped around her finger. With future shopping trips and weekly massages I’m hers! Whatever she wants and asks I’ll have no choice in doing it for her. And yes women do have power and control and it’s happening to me now that she’s seen me in bra/panty set..wearing leggings/knee high boots with women’s turtleneck sweater. With her having me by coach purse this is where she dug her nails into me with no intention of letting me go. Now with her having me try on her lipsticks along with mine I am her cream puff sissy girl.
You are most welcome! And you sure are her cream puff sissy girl, Petey!!! It sounds like 2017 just may be your best year yet! Have fun, Petey!!! 🙂
I’m going to have fun with this now that she is supportive and said she told me we need to go shopping. She plans on having me try & buy women’s slacks/tops with girlish colors that will pass on me along with bra fittings/trying on makeup/dresses as well lipsticks she said she will give me to apply then get her approval which we will do on Friday. She wants me to go into business with her in opening a coffe shop as well and I’m going to do it. By coming out this is best thing I did! And yes I am her cream puff! After she had me buy coach purse then measured/fitted me in bra as I had nothing but that and panty on in front of her that’s where it all changed as she made me model me in that with myself holding purse. she has the power and control over me which she can use against and expose me. I’ve no choice but to obey her and not question nor back talk her. I’m more then fine with that as I am her cream puff girl.
Mandy, I just sent you an email and then came here to look at your blog (maybe I should have done it the other way around). I love your attitude in this entry and your quote from Anne of Green Gables — if only we all had the energy and enthusiasm of Anne. Have you seen the great miniseries with Megan Follows? This is all in my head because we are planning on going to PEI and Quebec this summer.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0tkOJ5S0CgA
Take care!
Princess
PS — I like your support for Petey.
Ohhhh thank you SO much, Princess!! 🙂 I had some additional inspiration from John on this one, too. Always nice to have that! And I completely agree, that would be nice. I have not seen it, was it wonderful?? And I truly LOVED your email, thank you so much for sharing so intimately with me!!! 🙂