If I had to take a wild guess lol…I bet you’re wondering what I want more of, right?!? Well, probably lots of things…more youth (or at least all of the positive things that usually come with that), more creativity, more kindness (to surround me), more time, more courage, and more confidence. Ohhh and I guess I would be remiss if I didn’t say more money…as that really does help with so many things lol…of course! 😉
But in keeping with the theme of a new year with new possibilities and new beginnings…I am thinking of keeping it simple. Instead of a bunch of new year’s resolutions or a bunch of things that we might want to change…how about just focusing on one?!? One thing that you want less of (or to leave behind) and one thing that you want more of! 🙂
I think what I really want less of is stagnation…less feeling stuck…less of the “status quo”. And I guess the one thing that I want more of is really the flip-side of this very same coin. And to get this I think that I will need to be more brave, more open to both failure and to success, more open to completely prioritizing my wants…needs…and desires, and a positive daily affirmation to both remind me and reaffirm what in my heart I know to be true. And that is that I can do and be ANYTHING that I set my mind to!!! 🙂
I must admit that felt VERY therapeutic to not only think about but to put down on the page and share with all of you! So now I want to hear from YOU! What one thing do you want less of? What one thing do you want more of? There is a LOT of 2026 left…we’re just getting started! Let’s do our best to make it a year that makes us feel good in so many ways!!! 🙂
Joy & Love,
Goddess Mandy 🙂 XO
I want less self-loathing and harshness toward myself and I want more courage!
I want to more readily own my desires and be brave to explore what excites me, both sexually and not.
it’s crazy to think that after all our sessions you’d be struggling with confidence? but that was beautifully put.
for me 2025 was a year of pushing boundaries and trying new things, pushing myself further than I thought I could. in 2026 I want to continue to do so, I’m open minded now and have no idea what I’m truly capable of – you have pushed me further than I thought I could go in our brief time.
I think my goal for the year is to seize it. not miss opportunities and come out of the year a different and more nuanced individual
Goddess, i thought You were going to say more winning from the Patriots. 🙂
But in all seriousness, i completely agree with You. i definitely need a change to the other side of the coin in a lot of areas. The challenge is flipping that coin. Sometimes it’s bravery, as You said. Other times, it’s long, hard work, and the coin may still not flip, but i keep trying.
After what you told me last blog-it’s time to start calling all of you more and begin my feminization with all of you! I have the wigs/dresses/bras/makeup/lipstick/
heels-it’s to difficult to say no and resist! It’s time to give in to all of you as your sissy girl!
Ohhhhhh wow, kittykitty!!! What a beautiful and vulnerable share…thank you SO much for reading AND sharing yourself with us, here!!! I would absolutely relish the opportunity to talk with you about your desires. Being brave, being kind, and giving ourselves grace can be a big change, if we don’t often do it. But what a beautiful gift you’d be giving to yourself, IMO!! 🙂
Thank you so much, Jacob! 🙂 Sometimes we get a little surprised by things that we find out about people…I so so love that 2025 was a year of pushing boundaries for yourself and finding out that you could do and stretch further than you thought!! And I also really love that I have already pushed you farther than you thought you would or could go…how fantastic IMO!! 🙂 More nuanced…I love this too, Jacob! 🙂
Well melody…you know that I wouldn’t say LESS winning lol! 😉 Maybe you just need to practice a little bit of coin flipping…in your spare time or something. 🙂 Bravery, yes…that makes sense that is sometimes there for you! And change definitely is often not easy and often a bit uncomfortable, often more than a bit even I would say! I looove that you keep trying though…Yay for that!! 🙂
Yes Carligirl, Yes!!! I know in my heart of hearts that this is just exactly what you need!! To feel our desire to help you be the prettiest and loveliest sissy girl, ever!!! 🙂
Would like to be more obedient to you, Goddess.
Well Tim…I will be honest and tell you that I love knowing what you want more of! And…there is absolutely nothing that I don’t love about this statement! (double negatives be damned lol) 🙂
Much GRATITUDE Goddess Mandy for Your willingness to share Your introspection and provide insight into what You want more of. I always appreciate Your sharing here the tips You have been using over the past 13 years to help me shift to, and maintain, a more optimistic paradigm for my life than when You found me. It shows the caring nature of Your intrinsic beauty as You offer ways to help all Your devoted fans here in LDW land and in Your daily world.
Before i answer the questions You posed, i beg Your indulgence to share the idea You shared above that caused me to ponder most. Your thought on being able to do, and be, ANYTHING i set my mind to. You also know my mantra about my thoughts create my reality, and i am the master of my thoughts and its importance in maintaining my positive attitude in RL and especially in this beautiful virtual escape we have been able to create in our energy realm.Yet, i also have to remember to be realistic in what i set my mind to. Setting goals that are beyond our innate abilities and capabilities can lead to sense of failure and loss. It’s not always easy to turn those losses into lessons. I remember when i was about 18 and realized that i would never be an NFL star.
What do i want less of? You said Yours was stagnation. Mine is this innate lack of a sense of self worth.
What do i want more of? Companionship.
Thanks again for Your caring way of helping all us fans keep moving in a positive direction by sharing tips that work for You, and me. Much gratitude again for Your perpetual care and support keeping me moving towards my better self.
Thank you so much, kneel for ALL that you have both thought about and shared here. I so appreciate both your honesty and vulnerability AND you so appreciating Mine! Knowing that I am appreciated, adored, and respected by you and others is a very powerful and beautiful thing to have in My world! And knowing that My kindness, care, and support have been so very helpful to you (and others) over the years means the world to Me! Thank you for ALWAYS being so thoughtful, here. 🙂