The Rolling Stones complained about not getting any satisfaction but maybe the real issue for them was not that they couldn’t get any but that they struggled to fully enjoy the satisfaction they had attained.
Many of us have trouble slowing down and enjoying being satisfied.
While you were sitting on the couch happy and full after a great thanksgiving dinner, were you able to enjoy the warm feelings of satisfaction in your belly? Or did your mind wander to that big pile of dishes that needed attending to? Or perhaps you were too busy thinking about your long list of chores that you didn’t finish the weekend before? Or maybe you were already beginning to stress about the work week looming come Monday morning?!
Satisfaction is more than just feeling satisfied, it’s the ability to enjoy that satisfaction.
So, what about you?? Do you enjoy, truly enjoy the feelings and sensations that come with being satisfied?!?
What about orgasm? Do you rush to get to that ultimate “pinnacle of pleasure” or do you relax and take your time…making it last because getting there is just SO damn much fun and feels just SO damn wonderful?!?
And then after that wonderful orgasm, that fantastic explosion, how do you feel? What do you do? Are you enjoying these warm satisfying sensations or are you quickly putting your clothes back on…..next!!
For Me the getting there and the afterglow are every bit as wonderful as those few seconds of pure pleasure!!
Think about how wonderful it is to feel fully hard, pulsating and stretching against your own skin. Think about that warm melty feeling you have right after you’ve exploded! Embracing these feelings and sensations will enhance and expand all of your sexual and non-sexual endeavors moving forward.
Embrace the simple pleasures of each moment and you will enjoy the whole! 🙂
Oh Ms. Mandy, there is a reason why I have such a Mistress crush on you!
Yes!!! A rushed orgasm gives little to no satisfaction! And the more that the strokers understand that, the better off they will be. Coming to a sexy Mistress for some masturbation intervention and enhancement with teasing, edging, and delaying the orgasm WILL give them true satisfaction!
🙂 Ms. Delia
Ohhhh yes Ms. Delia, lol, and I am guessing perhaps maybe more than just one reason?! *wink* It is SO true what you say…taking time to really tune in to our bodies and enjoy them completely and fully is just soooooooo much more wonderful than anything that feels rushed. Taking the time to really “stop and smell the roses” before and after is mmmmmmmmmmm, just SO much more delicious in every way!!! 🙂
Sometimes that rushed, loss-of-control, almost instantaneous, orgasm is mind-blowing! Especially when I’m with someone who is down for putting in all the good work together for our 2nd and 3rd…YUM!????????????????
Well Joe, I have to say when you’re right, you’re right! 🙂 And now I am imagining all that “good work” and that sharing, and giving, and sexiness between you and she…that IS just yummy to think about!!!! 🙂
Thank You Goddess for another thought provoking blog. What is satisfying for one, may not be so for another, so thanks for providing me a place to share my thoughts.
Sometimes a hot quickie in a very naughty setting can be deeply satisfying, for the moment. Yet, i like You, find it much more satisfying to enjoy building the intensity of romance over an extended period of intimate sharing; sensual and prolonged foreplay; using all my faculties to provide for my lover’s pleasure; and helping Her achieve the type of satisfaction She is craving at the time.
i used to believe the only way to satisfy a woman was through great sex and multiple orgasms from various types of stimulation. While this may be physically exhilarating, and perhaps physically satisfying, Thanks to You, and my Mistress i now know that there are many other ways i can satisfy Your cerebral and emotional needs as well. It has been difficult for me to shift my paradigm to understand the pleasure of soaring in Domme’ space, yet the more i submit, the more i believe that alone, may satisfy.
And then You speak of after glow, after care, and after hugs. There is nothing more satisfying for me than to hold an exhausted and sated love as we both drift off to sleep, only to awake a bit later rejuvenated enough to begin again.
Thank You for being so patient in teaching me so many important lessons and being so willing to help me practice. 😉
For me it’s spending time with family but I keep the dressing to myself and not tell them. Once I’m home then I take off my boy clothes, put on my bra/panty set with slip then my body con dress with heels and rub my self off! I get hard instantly and I want to make it last. It feels so good when I do. To be with you Ms Cindy as we did was great with both of you doing this to me and making me dressing me and keeping me this way was the best! The lipstick kisses made it so much better as I became weak/submissive and feminine. I can’t say no to both of you along with the other mistresses. I’ll always be a cream puff sissy that wants all if you to turn/dress and keep me as a girl.
Ohhhhh petey! I LOVE that you want to make it last and that you clearly realize just how much better it is for you when you do! 🙂 And Ms. Cindy and all of us Mistresses just love keeping you all pretty, submissive, and feminine for us!
Ohhhhhh kneel….I SO love your thoughts! And just as much I love how freely you explore and share them with Me! 🙂 And I love that you had a paradigm shift around this very subject. It’s SO great that you now realize that there are just SO many ways to satisfy a woman and it may not come directly from stimulating her clitoris or her g-spot! And yes, that afterglow….just basking in it…truly feeling it and enjoying it for ALL it is! And there may be nothing more wonderfully glorious than making love, falling asleep in each other’s arms, and waking up to enjoy it all over again. 🙂 PS. You are so welcome…I love to teach, share, explore, listen and give!
Calling me Petey also makes me weak/soft/submissive and feminine.???????????? which is what I’ve become. Just being with Ms Cindy and the rest of the hot mistresses they’ve turned me into Petey cream puff and I always smell like perfume as they spray me and they’ve thrown away all my clothes as they have me wearing bra/panties/leggings/boots/slips with girlish turtle neck sweater. They threw away all my clothes. Now they plan on having me go shopping for body con sheath dresses and wearing them.