Yes, Petey I am talking about YOU!! You did it…you really did it!!! You finally came out of the closet after 20+ years…AMAZING! And I am SO very proud of you for doing it! I know it was not at all easy to share and it took great vulnerability and risk on your part!!!
So for those of you that don’t know Petey, (otherwise known around these parts as “Petey cream-puff”) he has been cross-dressing for many years. And with the exception of us lovely Mistresses, he has kept all of his wonderful feminine secrets to himself. Well, until this year that is. Just the other day he decided he couldn’t keep it to himself any longer and he shared his love of dresses and make-up and lingerie and yoga pants (and all things pretty and girlie) with his masseuse.
So again Petey, I applaud you because it’s one thing to share with “virtual” strangers but it’s a very different thing to share with those in your physical world. There is a lot more at stake. You may want or need to see these people often… and if it goes badly you are at very least uncomfortable and at worst…well who knows!
And for those of you who don’t know…here is how the story continues- Petey told his masseuse and she shared it with her girlfriend. Both of them are going to take him shopping with them, how wonderful! They have already been talking about foundation and lipstick colors. And Petey has shown off some of his pretty clothes only to learn that she loves his taste and wants to borrow some of them, wow!! 🙂
So, here is what I have learned…it can be risky and scary to reveal one’s true self to the world. At times it can even be dangerous. But when the situation is right and you’re accepted for who and what you are, there are very few things that can surpass this feeling! The feeling that comes with being truly accepted for you, ALL of you!!!
Did he really?! Congratulations Petey. Though we have never had the pleasure of speaking live, I am very familiar with you from all of your amazing blog comments. I feel as if I have known you forever. So this is very big news and I hope you feel both proud and liberated as well as incredibly feminine.
That is wonderful about Petey! I am sure it was a welcome relief to share that with someone in the “real” world. Ms. Mandy, I am sure you helped guide this, encouraged it and helped make it happen. You have a way about you that is understanding and I know that helped petey make this important decision. Awesome!
This IS truly wonderful for Petey – and I know how integral you, Ms. Mandy -with all your positivity, sincerity, support, and understanding- have been in the unfolding of this development!
That inner longing and turmoil with which Petey has been wrestling for so long has been so difficult for him; you could see it in everything he shared over time.
It’s hellish to want something so badly -to long simply to be accepted for who one really is- and feel that the prospect of ‘fessing up in real time may result in disaster and destroyed relationships. It’s a serious gamble, and it’s not fair.
I am so happy for Petey’s brave efforts to be true to himself and being one of the lucky ones who was welcomed and accepted. It’s nice to hear a story like this with such a positive result. I hope others can find inspiration in Petey’s bravery.
By the way, you rock, Ms. Mandy!! 🙂
It IS wonderful, so wonderful! 🙂 And thank you for saying such nice things, Ms. Meredith! I tried to help and guide and I hope that I did even just a teeny tiny bit. I do know that SO many of the Mistresses have encouraged and been there for Petey throughout this very long journey! And I am sure that Petey is grateful for each and every one of them.
Thanks for ALL of your amazing sentiments, Ms. EmmaJane!! 🙂 Like I said to Ms. Meredith, I think that SO many of us ladies had a hand in helping to guide and encourage Petey to take this step that he so wanted to take. And you are right, his efforts were absolutely brave. And happily he has been welcomed and accepted for who and what he is! It’s SO wonderful!! 🙂
Yes, Ms. Alexis! And thanks for stopping by and letting Petey know just how you feel about him coming out of the closet this way! I know it makes him feel good to have all of our support! 🙂
Thank you all for blogging on here!! All of the mistresses played a huge role in me coming out!!and yes Ms Mandy you did play a role in this! It feels so great/free/proud/liberating and totally feminine in telling her! It’s best decision I made! 2017 is off to great start by doing this. Aside from tennis I’m no much into the pro sports as this has taken over my personal life and now that I have someone to confine in and be supportive makes it totally worth it! She wants me to go into business with her in opening a coffee shop in 2018. I’m going to do this. Not only will she be my massuse/therapist but we will also be business partners. This is life changer for sure as we will make this a long term/life time relationship. Yes Ms Mandy I am her cream puff sissy soon to be business partner. Thank you to all the mistresses for giving me the push and courage to finally come out of the closet!!! Please keep blogging on this post!
Wow! Business partners even, how very exciting!!! And I am very glad that I could and did help you, Petey! 🙂
What I forgot to tell you after massage last Friday before I called you & Ms Cindy is that her husband surprised both of us coming in after massage. He scared the s–t out of both of us. She said he didn’t notice or say anything and urge did she would’ve stuck up for me. Yesterday she told me she has two more purses for me(Michael kor shoulder strap, one pink the other brown/cream color) with that and lipsticks do you think she has dug her nails into me? I think so, otherwise she wouldn’t have mentioned purses. Also next Friday we are going to do early massage them spend day shopping out of town. She wants to have me buy women’s slacks/tops/lipsticks/perfume/dresses along with me getting makeup put on me. She said to wear my leggings/knee high boots/bra/panty with my women’s wraparound scarve and women’s turtleneck sweater. She said it will be great to getaway and to be relaxed as I’m with her. The other 2 girls I play tennis don’t know about this but they to said they want to make me more accountable. Needless to say all 3 have started to tame and control me. I’m in real relationship as shopping trip/purses/lipsticks from her is way of digging her nails into me with no intention of letting me go. She can expose and tell everyone that I’m a sissy. I really am her cream puff purse sissy boy as I have no say and belong to her as this is going to be long lasting/lifelong relationship. And yes you will be one of main mistresses as I’ve been blogging to you on regular basis. I’m really her property????????
Ms. Mandy,
What exciting news you’ve reported! Thanks!
Oh Petey! What exciting news for you! I wish you nothing but the best with your business venture.
And, nothing but soft fabrics, lovely scents and a make up vanity to put ALL of us Mistresses to shame!
I look forward to Ms. Mandy sharing more of your adventures, in her blog! Do keep us updated, won’t you?
Well, that all sounds fabulous, Petey!! Have fun shopping after your massage! It sounds like you are finally in the situation that you’ve wanted to be in for SO very long! 🙂
And thank you, Ms. Erika for stopping by and sharing your enthusiasm with Petey on ALL of his exciting feminine life changes!! I am sure that he will absolutely keep ALL of us updated! 🙂
This past Friday she invited me to her house to try on lipsticks/gave me 2 Michael kor purses. In pink & brown shoulder strap purses. She said to come dressed up. I was sent to bathroom to try on 4 shades and she said they were orange look to my lips and said burgundy/red would be the type for me. Then she sprayed me in Ralph Lauren midnight/romance perfume then put same lotion on me. Then she had me model purses and said it matched my white turtleneck sweater with my leggings. I told her with purses/lotions/perfumes & lipsticks I look and smell like a girl and she said thesis what I wanted. I agreed with her and did whatever she asked. She said she wants me to wear my leggings/with ankle boots and same white women’s turtle neck sweater with the women’s wraparound scarf with pink purse since it matches. This coming Friday we are going to go out of town and she wants me to buy couple pair of women’s slacks/halter tops/turtleneck sweaters/both Ralph Lauren perfumes/lotions and to get makeup put me. By coming over to her house she has taken control and dug her nails into me with no intention of letting go. I can’t go back now that I did this and I’m in longterm/lifetime relationship with and as I’m her cream puff purse perfume lipstick sissy boy.
I know I am late to the game to comment on this but this is truly inspiring and I’m extremely happy for you Petey congrats! I would love to be in your situation with such accepting women that is great. Best of luck to you and I am jealous of your situation and am rooting for it to all go well for you!
Way better than never…..so glad you stopped by Str8MaleWearsLingerie!! I just LOVE you congratulating Petey and rooting him on! 🙂 And I hope that you, too, find that woman who is completely accepting of all that is you! You deserve it…you’re a super sweet nice guy!!!
Well thanks Mandy that is so nice of you to say! It’s always great to see a story of things working out for someone like Petey so that is awesome and I’m truly happy for him. Hopefully you’re right and I will find the same one day! Again congrats to you Petey!
Welcome, it’s so true. And you know me…I call em as I see em! And Petey shouldn’t have all of the good fortune in this department, right?!? 🙂
Well it’s very much appreciated and am glad you think so 🙂 I hope he’s not the only one to have that kind of fortune but at least one person deserves it! Would love to know how things are going for Petey!
Things are going well. She’s on vacation with her husband in Florida this week. She had me in Friday for my monthly waxing. And next Friday we are going on trip. I’m excited but bit nervous as I’ll be wearing leggings/my pink turtleneck sweater with my wraparound scarf/pink shoulder strap purse/knee high boots along with my bra/panty. She said not to be nervous as I’m with her and she mentioned she’s looking forward to this along with having fun with me all day. I’m just nervous if she notices my hard on when I get makeover as I hope I don’t cum????????????. I’ll need to bring extra panties/panty liners. It’s so glad she’s been supportive of this. We had emotional talk this past Thursday and she told me she wants me to be happy and this shopping trip will do just that. It’s amazing how much power women have on guys and she’s done this with me by looking out for me, telling me not to go crazy on credit card so we can do this trip. She has me using the same skin care lotion to keep both our faces girlish soft. She’s changed me mistress. She said she wants to take me outside the box. She has me thinking/acting/dressing & talking like a girl. I’m in too deep in the rabbit hole with no intention of getting out. She controls me as I’m going to do what ever she asks. I’m her cream puff sissy as this will be lifelong relationship.
Thanks for giving us an update, Petey. Sounds like there is a very exciting week ahead for you!!! Have fun with her! 🙂