Perhaps you’ve noticed a bit of a seasonal theme that I have been going with lately, well I suppose you would be right. But, tis the season to think about these things right…to sort of take stock a bit as the year is beginning to wind down?!? Things like being grateful, being happy and satisfied, and of course giving!
I don’t know about you, but I more often than not feel very thankful and very satisfied when I am able to give to someone or to many, for that matter. And like Me, I feel many people feel the exact same way.
So, during this holiday season, I want to talk about the power of giving! Specifically, I propose that we think about giving to our significant other, our boyfriend, our girlfriend, our husband, or our wife.
And when I say giving, I do not mean a beautiful sweater, a stunning necklace, or the perfect set of power tools. I am talking about the giving of your attention, your affection, your love, your adoration…your mouth!!! Giving yourself to your partner in the ways that most please him or her…giving in the ways that create such unbridled joy, elation, and ecstasy!!! 🙂
I found this quote about the flower and the bee and thought…yes this is it, exactly!
“And now you ask in your heart, ‘How shall we distinguish that which is good in pleasure from that which is not good? Go to your fields and your gardens, and you shall learn that it is the pleasure of the bee to gather honey of the flower, But it is also the pleasure of the flower to yield its honey to the bee. For to the bee a flower is a fountain of life,
And to the flower a bee is a messenger of love, And to both, bee and flower, the giving and the receiving of pleasure is a need and an ecstasy.”
Author Unknown
Whether it is better to give than receive…stay tuned! 🙂
I’ve already confessed on Ms Cindys/Ms Audreys blog about how dressing has become part of my life and told them that I enjoy it. Also giving into them in dressing me as a girl and keeping me that way. Both you & Cindy did this to me. All of you are to hot & sexy to say no to and yes I’ve given in to let all of you keep me as your cream puff. With all of you calling me cream puff and Petey it weakens me and makes me so soft/submissive and feminine. Once Cindy caught me wearing her bra/panty set I have in but didn’t want to tell her that. But she knew and I’m glad she has decided to keep me in a bra/panty set all the time along with wearing women’s leggings/yoga pants/boots/heels/dresses along with my whining she gives me lipstick kisses with hormones in that to give me girlish/hairless/petite/soft body with d cup breasts. I’m glad that this happened to me as being turned into her along with ldws cream puff sissy.
Well petey…I think giving yourself in such a submissive pretty way to Ms.Cindy & Ms.Audrey is such a wonderful way that you are giving. You are giving SO much of yourself to them as well as to LDW being our lil sissy cream puff. And you are seeing first hand just how wonderful it is to give…just how much pleasure you are getting in return! 🙂
Well Goddess are You…..No, really, Thank You for another look into the beautiful person You are to us. Your seasonal theme here caused several smiles and silent thanksgiving for those Who have given so much of themselves to us (i use us here because i don’t think i’m the only who feels this way).
One of the many things i have learned since we met is the importance of intimate relationships instead of acquiring “STUFF!” i agree with You on the importance of making time for those You care about. i long for the times when we could start with an early dinner with good conversation. This begins a long, tender seduction: with a bit of tender touching; kissing; peeling off clothing, a piece at a time; total body massage/worship; slowly transitioning into Your favorite foreplay,…(i’ll let You fill in the rest here, as well as above). 😉 exhausted; satiated; and connected as they fall asleep to awake and begin all over. i believe this is the type of giving i believe You are referring to.
Now, for the question: “is it better to give, than receive?”
It all depends of Goddess’ mood as to what i am allowed to give, or receive. Either is always best.
Very true! Since I met Ms Cindy she’s taken total control of me as well shared me with you and the other mistresses. She said I look so cute & adorable wearing a bra/panty set along with slip/leggings/yoga pants/as well as body con sheath dresses. She even put blush on my cheeks to give them girlish look along with applying lipstick on me. Everytime I would whine or pout she said I’m starting to sound like a girl and give me a lipstick kiss on my cheek. The kisses she gave me changed my body as there were hormones in them. It gave me petite/soft/smooth/hairless body and d cup breasts???? she said I’m such a nice sissy that she wants to keep me this way as I’m to nice to yell back at her. She mentioned no guy would ever let her or any of the mistresses turn nor dress them as a girl but I did. Now with pictures I sent to you/her and the other mistresses I really am a cream puff sissy and this means I’ll be one forever. I really belong to both of you and ldw.
Ohhhh kneel…you are SO sweet!! Thank you!! And I bet you are right that you’re not the only one who feels this way. And I think it’s pretty huge about your learned lesson (relationships vs. stuff) or maybe it’s simply a shift in perspective or that paradigm shift you often speak of. And I don’t think that it’s always easy to make the time for the ones that we care about. But, I do think it’s so important…and definitely way more important than “stuff”! And yes, your GIVING sounds deliciously yummy to Me!!! I have learned and learned well that this is just exactly how YOU love to give to your partner. 🙂
It’s all so wonderful, petey! I am glad that you have given to us all in this way. And in turn you have gotten so much back…it is such a happy thing!! 🙂
Thank You for the BFO epiphany! During our ride on Wednesday, we were talking about whether it is better to give, or receive. I learned that by sharing our time, talents, and attention to those we truly care about, we are able to both give, and receive simultaneously, it truly is satisfying.
Yes kneel….EXACTLY!! I could not agree more! And it’s pretty damn wonderful having and also inspiring those epiphanies! So glad that I helped…:)
Your right Ms Mandy!! Both Ms Cindy & Ms Brighton have firmly dug their nails into me with no intention of letting me go. Now I’ve send them pictures of me dressed. I really do belong to them as their cream puff. I did call Sunday night and they said I look so cute and adorable. With the new year approaching they have said they have plans to keep me as their cream puff with more feminization planned along with shopping trips. They want me to lose weight to get hour glass figure as well. They both said as long as I have hard on I have to be their cream puff until I no longer get hard and off. It looks like I’ll be their cream puff for a long long long time.I plan to call more with shorter calls=more calls in 20 minute range as they feel that’s enough time to dress me kiss me and get me off.
How delightfully wonderful, petey. Sounds like it’s going to be a very pretty New Year!!! 🙂