Perhaps you’ve noticed a bit of a seasonal theme that I have been going with lately, well I suppose you would be right. But, tis the season to think about these things right…to sort of take stock a bit as the year is beginning to wind down?!?   Things like being grateful, being happy and satisfied, and of course giving!


I don’t know about you, but I more often than not  feel very thankful and very satisfied when I am able to give to someone or to many, for that matter.  And like Me, I feel many people feel the exact same way.


So, during this holiday season, I want to talk about the power of giving!  Specifically, I propose that we think about giving to our significant other, our boyfriend, our girlfriend, our husband,  or our wife.


And when I say giving, I do not mean a beautiful sweater,  a stunning necklace, or the perfect set of power tools.  I am talking about the giving of your attention, your affection, your love, your adoration…your mouth!!!  Giving yourself to your partner in the ways that most please him or her…giving in the ways that create such unbridled joy, elation, and ecstasy!!!  🙂


I found this quote about the flower and the bee and thought…yes this is it, exactly!


“And now you ask in your heart, ‘How shall we distinguish that which is good in pleasure from that which is not good?  Go to your fields and your gardens, and you shall learn that it is the pleasure of the bee to gather honey of the flower, But it is also the pleasure of the flower to yield its honey to the bee. For to the bee a flower is a fountain of life,
And to the flower a bee is a messenger of love,  And to both, bee and flower, the giving and the receiving of pleasure is a need and an ecstasy.”

Author Unknown


Whether it is better to give than receive…stay tuned!  🙂