Who are You?
I think as we grow up or move on in years we often become more in tune with ourselves, our desires, our interests, our values, our aspirations, our thoughts, our feelings, our bodies. We often become a bit more in tune with who we really are in this world…or perhaps who we really want to be. 🙂
Maybe we’re feeling unfulfilled in our job or career? Maybe we’re feeling unhappy or disconnected from our spouse or partner? Maybe we’re working too hard…or perhaps not hard enough? Maybe we’re living a life for someone else…A life that we believe someone else wants for us? Maybe we’re doing everything that we can not to look at ourselves…our hurt, our pain, our anger, our fears? Maybe we are feeling completely disconnected and/or out of alignment with our values and our true core self? 🙂
Who Do You Want To Be?
But whatever it might be…today is a new day and things can change. And we can work towards being the person that we really are…the person that we want to be and see when we look in the mirror…our true authentic selves! 🙂
And perhaps you’re not sure all of who you are. And that’s totally OK. You can take the (perhaps) hard step and look at yourself. Be honest, even if you don’t like what you see. It’s that all important first step…admitting what is real and true for us…acknowledging what we see, even if it’s not happy or not pretty! 🙂
Who I Am!
Many of you have told me over the years that I am a good listener and a good friend. You have said that I am kind, caring, and compassionate. You have told me that I am different and that you know that I care…that I truly do care! And I have told some of you that this is not just “a job” for me. It’s my passion, my calling, I LOVE what I do!!! 🙂
And I would love to listen without judgement, with open ears and an open mind, with unconditional positive regard for you and your journey. I would be happy to be a confidant, a sounding board, a mirror, or simply a kind and compassionate friend. 🙂
Joy & Love,
Goddess Mandy 🙂 XO
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I love love love your blog, your kind and understanding words of support! What can I say? Just that I am overwhelmed by your helpfulness and passion! It’s obvious that you do what you do with love and that you enjoy it. All the more respect! This is what touched my soul. You are beautiful!
Ohhhhh my gosh, Casandra!!! Thank you SO very much for reading and sharing your beautiful kind thoughts with me about my post and my blog! And yes, you are correct…I do what I do with love and I absolutely enjoy it! I LOVE that I touched your soul and I very much appreciate your respect! YOU are beautiful, too!!! xoxo
Oh Ms Mandy. I love what I’m reading here. Don’t we all just want to feel accepted ? I’m a straight guy but I have bisexual fantasies. I’m a straight guy but I confess that when I look at porn I also get turned on by looking at a big hard cock. It just makes me feel so submissive. I’m a straight guy but I have fantasies of being turned in to a pretty sexy blonde shemale ! What happened to me ? Why do all these fantasies turn me on so much ? I have talked to a couple of women here already about my fantasies and have found nothing but acceptance and encouragement. And I appreciate that. Thats why i love this service. Again, I love what I read above and you are definitely a woman I want to talk to. Where else can I share these fantasies that I have and still feel accepted ?
Yes, beta brad I really think that we do ALL want to be and feel accepted for who we are! And thank you so very much for letting me know that you love what I said. 🙂 I’m so glad that you’ve enjoyed your calls with us and found only acceptance and encouragement, that is fantastic!!! And I would love to talk with you, too! 🙂
Thank You for such a thought provoking post. We have too much history for me to fully recap my journey over the past 12 years on Your wonderful mentoring to help me discover the answers to Your questions of who i am and who i want to be. It is truly a perpetual evolution, even at my advanced age. You have greatly helped me reduce the volume on my “old tapes” and encouraged me to see each day as a new opportunity to present my best self to the world focusing on being humble, kind, compassionate, and grateful for the goodness and abundance that abound in my world of being present, in this moment, which is the only place my life is occurring.
For those who read this who have yet to become acquainted with Goddess Mandy, She is all She professes above, and so much more if You seek uninhibited and accepting naughtiness.
Over these years, You have filled many rolls in my life: Friend, Counselor, Mentor, Confidant, Sounding board, and Lover. i am truly blessed by who You are and the genuine beauty that emanates from Your core being.
i truly appreciate, and agree with everything You have shared here. Yet, the one attribute You didn’t mention in Your post here, is Your salacious imagination and the myriad of experiences You bring is our journey throughout the kink continuum and the variety of the many beautiful and naughty vistas we have shared over the years. i love Your diversity and and willingness to skillfully blend my desires of the day with Your mood to maximize both our pleasure every time we speak.
Yes Mandy, You are my best Friend and all of the archetypes i mentioned above. But, You are also my kinky Goddess who always leaves me satisfied when our session time runs out. Your caring nature and love is always evident when You gift me with little notes in Skype and email that show me You are my friend, and not just something You say during our sessions.
Please feel my heartfelt, and steadfast gratitude for being such a genuinely caring woman who chooses to allow me a space in the beautiful sunflower garden of Your heart.
I am so happy kneel that I finally got your response to post. I know that you know My feelings well about your beautiful post, as I read it and we discussed it during our last session. I just read it aloud to John and he loved it! So that totally served to reinforce again just how much your words touched me. Thank you!!! 🙂