Watch or Be Watched?
So what is your take on this question?!? After all it’s still (for just a little while longer) Masturbation May. But my real thought is…why must we choose? Of course we really don’t have to, right?? Cause I don’t want to and you can’t make me!! LOL 😉
I absolutely positively love to watch…I am most definitely a HUGE voyeur! Yet…I am also a TOTAL exhibitionist, at heart! 🙂 So what’s a girl to do?!? Well…for starters…not choose between the two but instead embrace ALL that each of them has to offer! Why not have the best of both worlds?!? Life is too short!! If I can have my cake and eat it too…that is just exactly what I am going to do!! 🙂
So here is another thought for those of you that perhaps think like me…we CAN have both quite easily (and perhaps on rare occasion have it all) if we are both pleasuring ourselves separately, yet together. 😉 Did you follow that? I hope that wasn’t confusing… 🙂
Well I guess another way to share what I am trying to say here is to simply call it what it is…Mutual Masturbation! 🙂 I think this is one of the sexiest things that you can do in the bedroom together! Although…you sure as heck don’t need to be in the bedroom to mutually masturbate with you partner, or lover, or girlfriend, or boyfriend. Absolutely not…why not mutually masturbate in the kitchen, or the living room, or in the car, or on the deck, or in the basement, or in the pool, or in the bathtub? Why limit yourself…there are just soooo many fabulous possibilities out there!. In fact, as I see it…as long as you’re facing one another it’s gold…hot sexy GOLD!!! 🙂
Mmmmmm…you can totally be that exhibitionist and totally be that voyeur all at the very same time. 🙂 Looking into each others eyes…watching fingers play, roam, and tease…watching nipples swell, lengthen, and harden…hearing the wetness of the stroke…the wetness of fingers plunging in and out of creamy pink goodness!!! Ohhhhhh Wow…Is it getting HOT in here??? And You know this is only the very tip of the iceberg, don’t you?!?
So now what do you think…Watch or Be Watched? Or are you in MY camp on this…Exhibitionist AND Voyeur?!? Might I hear you say…”Yes Mandy, it’s way too hard to choose so I will absolutely take “Mutual Masturbation” for $800, please.” 😉
Joy & Love,
Goddess Mandy 🙂 XO
LOL what a fun and enlightening post, Ms Mandy! I love knowing more about you, and *looks around the empire* Judging from all the boners popping because of this post, the do too! YUMM!
I’m sure many who read this and are fans of Mistress Mandy will take Mutual Masturbation for much less, what a thrill and delight it is for your pets
to submit and obey and have you guide or watch their masturbation!
Well thanks so much, Ms. Erika! I do love sharing lots of myself with everyone. It’s nice to be and feel known and understood! It feels a bit like walking into Cheers…it feels so happy and warm when people know you and your name!!! 🙂
Gratitude to my Goddess for such a thought provoking share. i am fully in Your camp of why choose and limit myself to a pigeon hole, instead of having the curiosity of exploring all the venues available along the kink continuum.
As You well know Goddess, I enjoy variety. Yes, I do enjoy being the center of attention and putting on a good show for others, or perhaps just revel in the naughtiness of being observed by a passerby. i had a friend once who loved the thrill of sex in a car in a parking garage.
i am currently blessed in my current community of play parties and Tantra events to have developed a significant appreciation of admiring the subtle nuances of beautiful bodies solo, or in various stages of coitus, from negotiations, foreplay, kinky sex, to aftercare. Yet, it is a thrill when I get invited to participate and become part of the show.
You know Goddess, in all the times we have shared over the past decade plus, we have both enjoyed many scenes where we alternate between voyeur and exhibitionist. i will confess though, the thought of mutual Masturbation isn’t one we have spent much time with and perhaps You might consider the opportunity for us to do a session based on mutual visual pleasure soonest. my mind monkeys are already running amok wondering what I can learn by watching how You please Yourself to file away for future implementation by my amorphous rainbow swirl on Your potter’s wheel.
Thanks again for the overdose of fantasy fodder from the visual description You provided.
Ohh My gosh, kneel…what an AMAZING response to My post!!! 🙂 And yes…I so do know your desire for variety and you know just how much I both appreciate and love that this is a huge part of who you are in the world! 🙂
And it’s just so wonderful that you are part of such a beautiful community which allows you to share, and grow, and explore so many parts of yourself! 🙂
And I love that you’d enjoy exploring a bit of or maybe more than a bit of mutual masturbation with Me! I am thinking it could be quite titillating, to say the least! 🙂 Let’s Do It!!!
Hi Mandy, my strong preference is 1:1 activity; I crave the intimacy of connecting with one person. However, to answer the question, I WOULD PREFER BEING WATCHED. Watched devotedly Mistress or Mistress watching me enthusiastically submit to one of her friends. Could be HOT!
Mmmmm…I truly love 1:1, as well! And like you, I also feel that the intimacy is such a huge part of it. And being watched IS incredibly sexy…I felt that hot rush today, actually! 🙂 It might be fun to talk more about it…or perhaps even play it out! What do you think? 🙂
Delightful, Mandy!…both would be delightful! Smiling thinking about it and writing this response…YUM!